Reflect

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Am on a break from dating apps

Have you really given them a chance? I think so. Last year I spent a few months (on and off) on Tinder, Bumble and Hinge and this year I gave Tinder another go. I totally get that the world is changing and that people use social media and technology to do so many things, so […] Read more…

Over my job, Should I quit?

change jobs

Change jobs, shouldn’t you be happy you have one? I know that a lot of people will say that I should be happy with whatever job I have. And I agree. I am very lucky to have opportunities to change roles within my field. I am also aware that I am really lucky to be […] Read more…

what stresses you out?

…think stress is just a part of life

What is stress? Stress is a basic survival mechanism. It is unavoidable and neccessary. In its simple form it is the flight or fight feeling where your body gives you the energy to run a mile if you need to or stay and battle it out. Normally for me, it involves sweaty palms, a feeling […] Read more…

have a love hate relationship with personality tests

What are personality tests? A personality test is normally a set of questions that the result shows what a person’s attributes and values are. They are used for a lot of things but I have done them as part of team building or for jobs I have applied for. There are ones that create detailed […] Read more…

image of a firework and the title Think New Years resolutions will stick

… think we can stick to New Year’s Resolutions

Don’t normally stick to them? I have about a 50/50 probability of sticking to a New Year’s resolution that I make.  Normally I only get to February or March before I have given up or am actually doing the opposite.  Take the year I decided to get FIT! I am one of those people who […] Read more…

image of clouds and the words what choice do i have

…remind myself I always have four choices to any situation

Why does it matter? Sometimes I listen to people and get a little judgy on what choices they make when to me they have the same options available to them but make very different decisions.  Hearing people’s personal stories, visiting different places around the world and interacting with each other helps me build different perspectives […] Read more…

stick person and a giant question mark in front of a yellow baackground with the words think you know your values

..think you should know your values

What do you mean by VALUES? Your values are just adjectives you can use to describe what person you want to be. I find it easier to think about words you would be happy hearing someone describing you with.  Are they the same forever? I think that its good to review them every so often […] Read more…

full moon in a dark sky and the words track my moods

… track my moods

Am I moody? Some of us change moods for a number of reasons. Maybe we are stressed, just having an off day or we might be hormonal.  Regardless of what gets us there, I find that sometimes I am aware and sometimes it isn’t till I see a pattern or someone tells me that I […] Read more…

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